If you think BDsm and Femdom are all about a fierce woman in leather and latex, think again. Oh, that attire CAN be part of a Mistress wardrobe but the power of the Experienced Mistress Olivia comes from way more than clothing. Whether clad in latex and leather or a pink sundress, a woman that is used to assuming control will always hold the power in her relationships.
Power Exchange and BDsm
A Mistress gets her power all sorts of ways. Mostly it is an internal sense of natural Dominance. Be very clear about something: you might want a mean Femdom but Mistress does not mean bitch.
The most extreme BDsm and fetish play should include a sense of appreciation for your submission. That might take the form of tender aftercare, communication between sessions, negotiation before your session or something else. There is a SENSE you will get from a naturally Dominant woman that you will never get from vanilla women. You can put a vanilla woman in hot latex and you still won’t have a Femdom.